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I am just 18years old and I just found my Bmom (Deanna) two weeks ago. It a crazy story it took me and my aunt about an hour to find and talk to my birth mom. I couldnt believe that some people it takes years but it was only one hour!! I am so over whelmed and I have tried to talk to my friends about everything but they donҒt seem to get it. I want to talk to my amom about everything but I dont know how to approach the subject I donҒt want to hurt my amom at all. I couldnt do that to her, how would I talk to her with out hurting her feeling or feel that I am pushing away from her? My bmom told me that she would bye me a plain ticket to see her and I really want to but I didnҒt want to go unless my amom says that I can go. So I asked her if I could go and she said that I could but she wants to go with me. I can understand why she wants to, but I just want to do this by myself I want to react how I want to react. I dont want to have to worry that I hurt my mom if I gave Deanna a hug or something. I have two moms now and I donҒt want to lose either or them. I never really understood how much of an emotional roller costar this is. I get it now!