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Just to let everyone know we now have a court date. At this point I have mixed feelings, I am scared to death, but feel this needs to end. In my heart I believe this will be okay. I am still praying...and just know God will be standing by us. I will keep everyone posted...just 6 weeks away. I know we will not be able to sleep...the worry is just horrific. I just pray this judge will immediately know how much our son means to us, and that it is in his best interest to allow this adoption. I cannot believe its finally coming down to the counting weeks. It seems far now, but it will get here quickly. Keep providing us with the needed support -together we have all helped one another. Thank God for this adoption board...it really is a coming together of adoption knowledge and we all share what each of us know and go through. I am trying to keep strong and know that through God all things are possible...keep us in your prayers...thank you!:wings:
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I'm with Billy's Mommy. It feels so good being on the other side and we know you're going to feel so much better here with us. Yes, this is a stressful time but you know it will be over with soon. Your friends here are with you in thoughts and prayer. Hang tight and have faith. It's going to be ok. :flowergift:
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Hi StacyKelly2, As you know through our correspondence I am here for you 24/7. I believe you are doing the right thing - and doing what must be done. I do not want you still going through this in another 3 years like I am. And my experience and instinct tells me that this is the only thing you can do. As I told you privately, this does not get easier, or better, as time passes - it only continues to wear you down. The next few weeks will be tough. We will ramp up the prayers and support for you. I am sending you a PM (again). I DO know what this is like. I DO understand the pain. I am thankful you are keeping us posted. Your son is BLESSED to have you as his MOM!!! Your friend, ChristieS
We to are praying for you and your family. For us the waiting was not all that bad.When we got busy we tended to forget about it. Walking through the court house doors however was a different story.I felt like I was going to be sentenced for a crime. The appeals court however was great.They treated us with so much respect and explained everything so well.After the first 5 minutes everyone felt at ease. You have waited long enough and I have a feeling this will be swift for you now. I believe GOD has decided it was time for HIM to move on this board. By the end of the year we all will be telling our storys to help others instead of each other. GOD BLESS
DaddysAngel, you are SO RIGHT. God is moving forward for all of us that have waited long enough because He knows that our children need the security of our families. We all need to pray very hard the next few weeks to keep the negative influences away. Thanks for saying what you did. I'm certain your words are very calming to StacyKelly.
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Thanks to everyone who responded. Coming to this board helps so much! I feel like we have become close friends..and I can turn to you guys for the support and answers and spiritual guidance we each need. Contested adoptions are extremely hard to go through..We are hopeful this court date will be the last and that we can finally get the peace we need. Through this forum I see clearly the love each one of us have for our children. There is no question as to the love we have for our little angels!!! It is just so obvious in each post I read. I know God picks us, because our love is just so abundant and strong when it comes to our angels....I know faith in God has taken us this far. I know it is through God that we have been blessed with such a wonderful miracle...Each of us, are lucky and blessed to have our angels..and all we can do is cherish and love them and thank God for everyday we have them. Looking at my little angel...I know this is meant to be...As I am sure each one of you get that same feeling...when you hear your angel say "mommy" or "daddy"...that is all we need to hear. Hearing those words..melt our hearts. I never thought I could get through this and my only answer is it is by the grace of God. I will keep everyone posted...and during this time we will just keep on cherishing, caring and most of all loving our little angel to pieces!!!:wings:
Just received word our court date has now changed-imagine that?!!- However, this is due to the fact our original judge was not available on our original date, so she wants this case to come in front of her. Hopefully that is a good thing-However I feel this just gives the birth father more time which scares me even more. It is only 2 weeks longer then the original court date, but still frustrating. This is it hopefully no more changes in dates.