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:arrow: NOw that a couple of very astute ladies stopped me from asking some stupid questions of my bsons amother, I have another one, that is, would it be ok to ask her this question, or more accurately, make this request. How would you feel if the bmom of your grown child asked this of you.:dance:
:hippie: when Shirley and I would talk of the phone over the years, she would tell me stories, little slices of life about J. I have remembered most of them ( a BIG accomplishment for this heavily ADD girl) and treasured them. Now, S and I are communicating by email rather than phone these days, I know we could get more information by phone but, this is the medium we are stuck with for a while........
So is it ok for me to ask her to tell me a story, those silly little stories of the child that moms treasure??? It has been several years since we talked on the phone so there are a bunch of years she can refer to, although I don't care what era she talk about!
Do you think that's ok?
:thanks: :grouphug: Thank you so much for your help and good old common sense one and all, I do so very much appreciate your words of advice and comfort as I struggle to deal with my situation.
Sally:hippie: :love:
I think there is nothing wrong with asking that. But try to let her know where you are coming from. Explain that you are feeling shut out right now, and that you would really welcome any stories she might be able to share. To give you some comfort.
Does that make sense?? Sometimes I don't!! lol
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Leigh131313
I think there is nothing wrong with asking that. But try to let her know where you are coming from. Explain that you are feeling shut out right now, and that you would really welcome any stories she might be able to share. To give you some comfort.
Does that make sense?? Sometimes I don't!! lol
I agree with Leigh. I think it's fine to ask, but maybe explain why you want to know.