questions...

I'm doing some research trying to find answers to all my questions, but I thought I'd just come to the experts and see if any of you can help me. We have a 2 year old son from who is my world! He came home from Guatemala in 2005 and we are hoping to start again very soon. We've looked at several programs but keep coming back to Vietnam. We want to stay in birth order so that Alex can be a big brother. So, let me see if I can throw a few questions out there for ya... 1. Avg age for at referral? 2. Avg age at homecoming? 3. How long for a referral? 4. How long do you stay in country? 5. Do both parents have to travel and/or stay the whole time? 6. More boys or girls? Or is it about the same? 7. And of course agencies....can you pm me if you are using a great one that you would recommend? Alrighty, thanks in advance for all your help!!!! :) Sabrina