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Hey red, I wish I had advice for you. I am sorry your ds is going through this. I will keep you in my prayers.

Is there an option of switching teachers within the school? Or would you not want your children in the same class? Homeschooling is certainly a wonderful option if that's what you feel would be best for him.

I, too, wondered about switching teachers.And as for if you want to homeschool, talk to your son and get his take. He might rather do that than continue where he's at. And, tis better, in my opinion, to pull him now and homeschool him than to have him stick it out and detest school for the rest of his schooling.

I moved my kids to home schooling in 7th and 8th grade. It was the best option for them at the time. I remember listening to Foster Cline(Love and Logic) talk once about his daughter. His daughter got the "mean" teacher and many parents wanted him to intervene. However, he didn't because his daughter was in that class. He felt that to rescue her would rob her of a learning experience. There are people in our lives that will make things miserable-bosses we won't get along with, other employees etc. I think there is much value in his train of thought. Is there anything you can do to help your son find a way to get along better or to better deal with the issues that are making him hate school? If it were me, I'd start there. Home schooling can be great, but it's really hard work and putting kid's back in after they've been out is difficult sometimes as well.

Bless his heart. That is tough when one person can totally change a child's enthusiasm for school, for a valuable education. My son had a really tough time in 6th grade as well, but his issues were with bullies (here 6th grade is M.S.). He went from a child that was very social and outgoing to absolutely HATING school. It is tough! I hope you can change Teachers or find a solution.

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I agree, to an extent. Our younger daughter had a horrible teacher in 1st grade, belittled her and us, refused to see the good in our daughter, you name it. We never knew if it was a personal thing, or a race thing, or what.... Our daughter was miserable. We were miserable. We handled it by telling her she just had to get through the school year, and things would change. Just tough it out, etc..... It may have taught her a lesson in dealing with others. But it also left a black mark on her school record due to the behavior problems this teacher constantly reported with her (behaviors not seen before or since). Looking back on it, I would have changed teachers if I had to do it all over again. Audrey

we haven't been in your shoes as far issues with the teacher... thank goodness... but middle school years are very tough ones... I homeschooled my oldest part time in eighth grade... the two younger ones, 6 and 7, are currently in K and 2nd.... but i already know that i am going to pull them after fifth grade and homeschool.... possibly through tenth... it depends. I recommend paying for a good online curriculum.... (they come with books, too)... I like one called Laurel Springs, i think... just google it... anyhow, this one has yearly standardized testing... Terra Nova's... so you can make sure your child is progressing on a National Level.... Also, they customize curriculum... they give your child a test first, and then place him in the curriculum where he belongs.... which is really important to me... if you maintain a structured home school environment, i don't really see him having any problem going back into the school setting.... but structure is really important... if you let him get away with turning things in late or staying in PJ's all day, you may have trouble when you put him back in... I know people from both ends of the spectrum.... laid back, PJ's all day.... turn in things late... and the opposite, structured... scheduled.... etc. and as far as I can tell, the kids from the structured setting did better when put back in school... but i'm only speaking for the very few that i know of.... not all .... j

I agree there is some value in this line of thinking...in certain situations and with certain children. Perhaps at a certain age. Is grade six that age? I don't know. I do know that grade one was NOT that age and I deeply regret not pulling my son out of an absolutely horrible first grade situation with a mean teacher who scared the bejesus out of him and caused him to hate school halfway into second grade when he finally, blessed with a wonderful teacher and with LOTS of support from me, healed.

My son had the mean teacher in 2nd grade. Not only was she a teacher who lacked any warmth (and as a former 2nd grade teacher, she definitely need it for that gae), her and I had butted heads when my oldest had her for math. She hadn't been willing to adapt her learning stations rules for my ADHD son until her grade partner (who he had for all but math) insisted she did. He toughed out that year but there were LOTS of meetings with both me, prinicapl, teacher and school counselor. He HATED school. Thankfully, he got a teacher he loved (and who loved him) the following year so no, by grade 5, we are back to loving school. Looking back, I should have pulled him that year though --it was horrible for all involved!

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