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[url]http://forums.adoption.com/adoptee-support/332292-what-do-you-call-your-biological-mother.html[/url]Nicole has used the terms "egg and uterus" to describe her b-mom and "sperm donor" to describe her b-dad. After discussing this with crick, we are leaving it because she personalized it, instead of using it a name calling. We need to watch this thread cause this will probably upset some people.
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Well........see, this is where my birth mom side and my screwed up adopted kid side conflict with each other. Because, if truth be told, my birth mom - she's just a big ole flaming b!tc4. I mean...look up 'evil' and there will be a big ole shiney picture of Patti Lynch - my birth mother. She perpetuates every steretype out there (except the drugs, I don't think she dopes) - however, never married, single mother, could care less about me (or the son she parented) - self centered egomaniac with an attitude problem.If I weren't a birth mom (and I didn't know how painful it was for other birth mom's to see stuff like this) I could EASILY write that (and more) - because the fact remains - that's more or less (when ya boil it down) what she is.We have zero emotional attachment (she has zero emotional attachment to anything). If I (or Shawn) dropped dead tomorrow - I doubt we'd even register on her radar...HOWEVER - this is me 'passing judgement' on a woman I know - not applying a lable to a woman I have no knowledge of.Nichole28 has had issues with her adoption (even tho she tries hard to deny that) and I think she blames her birth mother (and maybe father) on the fact that she hasn't been able to find them. I think she's angry and when people are angry, they lash out. By the way - I reunited with my birth father almost 2 weeks ago (over the phone). I'll share when I get a chance.
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