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I'm *THIS* close to banning her from the GAPS forum completely. Waiting to calm down first so I can be objective about it.
Just seems that she has this need to go around and do a "soft close to the line not outright bash" of aparents and only posts on GAPS to pot stir.
The latest is [url]http://forums.adoption.com/general-adoptive-parent-support/338087-if-money-were-no-object.html[/url]
Plus there's a couple other threads she is posting on right now.
I'm fine with opinions and pointing things out from a firstmom perspective etc. That is not my issue...my issue is her "intent" and the what I see as "anti" which has no place here. There's Anti and then there's ANTI...kwim?
Just keep watch please...
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I was just reading your response to her on that thread.
I really, really want to be able to see her side, but unluckly I am to the point of cringing when I see her name because I know it is going to be SO anti-AP. I do think she has a lot to offer, and she shouldn't have to sugar coat her experience, but she just rubs me the wrong way every time.
Unluckly it looks like the thread is turning to anti-her instead of the origional topic.
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I'm trying to keep up with these threads - holy cow! She's also posting on the Grandparent thread [url]http://forums.adoption.com/general-adoptive-parent-support/337375-bgrandparents-want-baby.html[/url]. It's fine (for now) but I'm going to be out for a bit this afternoon, so if someone else could help me watch it that would be great!
the thing that bugs me is she is very generalized with her "there should be no adoption." what about children that were victimized.....what about children whose birthparents pass away......what about parents who really just want to make a birthplan and regardless of how much support they had just really want this for their child? i know adoption is not always the perfect solution.....but i can't imagine it not existing at all.