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I gave up a son on november 7 1972 and have had a lot of problems finding him. I called catholic charities and was told for a fee of 400.00 dollars they will find him for me, through their records. I am very excited and also very scared he will not want to communicate with me. How do I handle this part of it.
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You can only put yourself out there and see what happens. Would you rather attempt a search knowing up front that there could be no response on his end (but an equal chance that there could be a positive outcome), or not search at all and never know one way or the other?
I know it is hard to put yourself out there, but you could be pleasantly surprised.
Just take things one step at a time, breathe, read up on reunion issues, see if there is a triad support group in your area (maybe through your agency?), etc.
Best of luck to you!
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jeanann505
Stay with us and keep asking questions.. There are lots of lessons to learn.. lots of emotions to sort.. but sort you can..
My suggestion would be to stay out of the negative thinking.. Stop those thoughts the minute they come up..
Trust the journey..
Jackie
I am very excited and also very scared he will not want to communicate with me. How do I handle this part of it.