Child with RAD

[FONT="Arial Black"][/FONT] I don't even know where to begin..I have a child I adopted that was my foster child.Well social services never gave us the information we needed..They knew she was a RAD kid but didn't tell us or her therapist...Well she is now 13 and I don't know how to help her.We have put her in a treatment center do to her therapist recommendation because she was getting in legal trouble and was physically abusive to myself and her siblings, would run away and make up storys.. But since she has been in the center things have gotten worse she has started cutting herself and has been running away more and using drugs and alcohol and has become sexually active. She is my daughter and I love her dear but I am lost and don't know how to help her..It is splitting my family and they can't handle that they are being put on the back burner because we have to deal with her actions always. :roadblock: :roadblock: