this is related a little bit...i know everyone tells their kids not to let anyone touch or see their privates, but i also stress to mine that no one should be showing you theirs or asking you to touch theirs either...that everyone's privates are private.
Me too jbee! I tried to cover every scenario with them. We just can't be too careful these days. I used to "drill" my kids about "who" had the right to touch their privates or have them touch theirs. I would name names...I would ask, "Does Uncle "Bo" have the right to touch your privates?" "How about the preacher?" etc. I would even include us, so that they could see that NO one was excluded from this list (I would always say something like, "Does Mommy have the right to touch your privates?" "No...only if you're in the bath tub and I'm washing you and I'm trying to check you for boo-boo's").
I know it may sound like I made them paranoid, but I haven't. However, they do have a stong sense of self and no that no one should violate that!