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After a nice visit with Kathy, I got home yesterday evening and within less than 2 hours, the in-laws called to ask if J or I had borrowed their car. They are in Chicago and neighbors had called them to say that the car was missing. We hadn't borrowed it, so it looked like it was stolen. The J's and I drove over to the house (just a couple miles) to meet the sheriff to make the stolen car report, since OnStar wouldn't activate without a police report number and authorization.
It occurred to me we should probably check around and what we found was horrifying. The large 5-ft safe recently installed into the wall behind hidden panels was lying on the floor on its side, open, a hole torched and cut right through the safe walls to open it from the inside. All the drawers were out and empty. It looked like a war zone, pieces of wood and debris and metal and wires laying everywhere. The entire alarm system was ripped out of the wall, with just a hole and a bunch of cut wires hanging where it used to be.
Poor little J was totally freaked out as he saw J and my reactions in the moment and saw us begin to run through the house to see what else was gone (all the TVs, computer and camera equipment- the usual). He didn't feel safe and I don't blame him.
J ended up taking him back home to stay while DH and I spent the night here- with every light on, every door, window and gate locked and his car making a blockade across the driveway, blocking both the garage door and the back gate. We got maybe a few hours sleep after all the neighbors (who are also the best friends and the supervising interior designer for their remodel and the alarm rep) left and the sheriff finished taking the report. I was glad they came. They each had something to tell the deputy, what they had seen, when the car went missing, who was here. The deputy said it was obviously a professional job, and they had good inside info (that they were gone, where the safe was, etc.)
We got a knock on the door that the car was found, just several blocks away, parked and in perfect condition. The deputy said sometimes they'll do that as a "tell" to see if gets reported stolen or if they are still undetected and can keep coming back, especially if they know the owners are out of town.
I don't know why I'm unloading this here, except that here is where the "party" is and I don't want to bring down the fun thread. J said he'll never forget the look on my face as we found the safe- said it was a combination of horror sadness. That's pretty much what I was feeling. Still am.
Today, we hang out here and wait for the CSi team to come today to do the actual investigation (last night was just taking the initial report and opening the case), also the alarm company, the safe company, the closet company (closets totally destroyed), the insurance company, someone to re-key everything, including the car (thiefs still have the key). FIL is flying back on the first flight from Chicago and DH will pick him up at LAX this afternoon. He needs to make a closer inspection of what's missing and start making a detailed list of items and finding receipts and appraisals.
I can post this because for some reason, they left MIL's computer system here and intact, though they took FIL's and the laptop. We don't really care about the TVs and electronics...they're plastic and wires and mean nothing. But the safe- it was such a violent job and had 3 lifetimes of family jewelry in it- MIL's, her mother's, FIL's mother's. That stuff is irreplaceable...not to mention the sense of security in their home.
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Oh my gosh!!! That is so horrible and just vicious! I'm so sorry for your inlaws and their victimization.
I'm torn between saying this and not, but I'm glad they were out of town because if they were there, based on the professional job on the safe, there's no telling what would have happened. This of course doesn't ease or take any of the shock and horror away from it and I don't mean for it to sound like a "Well look on the bright side" comment.
((HUGS))
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Wow Heidi...that's awful.
I can't even imagine how violated your in-laws (and you for that matter) must feel. I bet it's going to be difficult for them to feel safe in their home for a very long time.
I'm just glad that no one was there and got hurt.
Let us know if they come up with anything.
Heidi - How awful and scary! It is such a violation to have something that brutal happen. It sounds like the police are taking it very, very seriously and that's great; unusual, but great!
TV's, electronics and other material stuff like that can be replaced, damage can be repaired, but it sounds like they took belongings that can never be replaced and that is heartbreaking.
And, I imagine your entire family's sense of security has been destroyed. I am so sorry this happened!
Heidi that is just awful!!!!
so glad to hear that the neighbors are not being quiet about it and are helping the police in this.
Heidi I'm so sorry to read this!!! Hugs to you and DH and the inlaws and especially to both J's! I hope they find the words I can't say on a family forum and they get tossed where they belong.
Again, I'm just so sorry. If you need anything, don't hesitate to ask.
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Thanks guys. I think the adrenaline is starting to wear off, because I'm starting to get weepy. I'm sorry to be the downer today, really.
Crick, I absolutely agree with you. I am so glad they weren't here for a few reasons. The thiefs had a blow torch, safe cracking tools, saws, etc...these were pros and they knew what they were after, they came, they destroyed...I am SO glad no one was in the home. I shudder to think... I'm absolutely grateful for the empty house.
Also, I'm glad they weren't the ones to have to discover the original sight and see the first aftermath, although I'm very sad that Little J did. I wish I could have spared him that. Big J can handle it, but Little J was traumatized. We let him sleep and stay home this morning (J is still at the house with him while DH and I are here at his parents') to rest, recover and feel less stressed before going back to school tomorrow.
The police are taking it very seriously and I am so glad. The investigator was here by 8:00 am and spent a good 2 hours here and will continue canvassing the neighbors and making calls. The crime scene guys were here by 10:30am and are taking prints, photos, gathering evidence (rope, rags, a file saw left behind) and looking for DNA as I type this. Once that's done, we can start to clean up a bit so it's not quite such a horrifying sight. We'll get the car back this afternoon...crime scene guys said they are heading to do the car as soon as they leave here and then it can be released to us.
I am SO sorry that you had to go through that! How traumatizing! I hope there is enough information that they get caught before they can do this to others.
How odd that they would leave that one computer, though. My concern with that is the criminals installed some spyware in the hopes of getting credit card numbers or bank account numbers at a later date, to add to what they already stole. Maybe ask the police if that is at all likely? Alternatively perhaps they'd been in and out a couple times and were expecting to come back for that last computer, a possibility suggested by the location where they left the car.
Have you been allowed to start cleaning up the mess yet?
You don't mention how the criminals got into the house, if it were me I'd even change the location of any burglar screws on the windows. Just the IDEA of a break in makes my skin crawl and I'd want to change anything they could possibly have used or plan to use in the future.
Hang in there! I'm so glad they had you nearby, and that you thought to check the house, and that you were able to make all the appropriate decisions.
How absolutely dreadful!
What a complete and utter NIGHTMARE!
I am glad no one was there though.
I hope little J is doing better now...
The safe company just left. He said in 15 yrs, he's never had one of their safes successfully broken into. And he's never seen such a violent attempt. They (thiefs) worked hard. The safe weighs about 600lbs and was securely bolted to the wall on every side.
They knew exactly where the safe was, they knew exactly where to torch through to access what they needed on the inside, they what to do inside the safe to get the door open...these guys were pros. The investigator and the crime scene tech both said the same as the safe guy...they've never seen anything like this in a home burglary.
As for getting in, it looks like they made a few attempts before succeeding. They got on the roof and tried to smash through the 2nd story windows of the "grandsons" bedroom, but they are windows that can't be smashed. They got into the garage and tried to break through the locked door that leads into the house, also unsuccessful, they just thrashed the outside of the door. What worked was slitting the screen to the back laundry room bathroom door, sliding the unlocked window up, reaching in where the doorknob was locked but the deadbolt wasn't. They just popped the doorknob lock and were in.
One bit of humor: MIL had her few pricey pieces with her out of state. The huge safe was filled with...drum roll...her TJMaxx jewelry! A fitting irony. I hope those guys hurt themselves for their handful of plastic and a few TVs.
Crime scene tech did get one full handprint from the safe, he's pretty sure it's one of our bad guys. He also had a few things he's hoping will be positive for DNA...they left behind old shirts they used for rags and some of their tools. They said even if they're wearing gloves, if they wipe off sweat or if they've used the tools before without gloves, there is often DNA left behind.
We just have to hope it's not their first time and we'll get a hit in the database.
Now I need to get in a lighter mood. Over to the other thread... Thanks for all your kind thoughts, everyone. You're keeping me nicely distracted in the quiet, TV-less, ransacked house.
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I just want to say how sorry I am your family is going through this - it is a complete violation! Do they have any idea who it was yet??
Haven't heard anything yet, but I imagine it takes a while to process these things. Thanks for your kind thoughts. :)
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One bit of humor: MIL had her few pricey pieces with her out of state. The huge safe was filled with...drum roll...her TJMaxx jewelry! A fitting irony. I hope those guys hurt themselves for their handful of plastic and a few TVs.
Heidi, at least there was a bright spot in this!!!
Heidi,how awful! I missed this earlier in the week. I guess I was occupied (I had a tooth extracted on the 4th in addition to the ankle.) I'm sure the sense of violation is the hardest part of the whole experience.
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