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Our daughter was with us for almost 11 months. The bmom did not want the baby, the bdad did but he has no job, never offered support, he is truly a horrible person (I can't get into specifics). ANyway, the baby stayed here lnmost since birth and yesterday the judge ruled that she go with the birth father.I am looking for support groups, has anyone joined one for "foster" parents or parents grieving over a failed adoption after so long?As you can imaginem the pain is unbearable. Thankfully we have 7 other children, but they are grieving something fierce too. Thank you.
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We started fostering T. when he was six months old. I dropped him off at his dads house when he was over 2 years old. I had done that numerous times with toddlers, but never with a baby. I finally broke down and joined a grief support class at church for people who lost a loved one. They allowed me to join. That helped. posting helped also. I wrote things down so I could remember him etc.. With my own child I just tried to put on a good face and help him get over it also. sorry for your pain, just remember you did what she needed when she needed it.