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Well two months ago, I thought our dreams were about to come true. My Childhood friend was pregnant and unable to keep the baby, she asked my hubby and I if we wanted to adopt her baby:banana: Everything was going well, until she called to tell me she lost the baby. I was in complete SHOCK:eek: She was 16 weeks! I'm just now able to type without crying about it! We have been married for 13 yrs and trying to concieve for 121/2! We have decided to hang it up! We are comfortable $ wise but cannot afford to pay $20,000 for adoption! I have a 14 yr old daughter! We have decided to focus on her and just appreciate what we have and not what we don't have! She came home from school 2 weeks ago and said a girl in her class is preggo with twins! WHATEVER!!!!:arrow: The girl's mom is gonna adopt them. I hope I don't sound too negative... We have been down the fertility road and with all this adoption stuff! I'm wiped out! SORRY Just needed to vent!
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I'm sorry to hear about your lost oppurtunity, however there are alternatives to private adoptions, there is child services, you may not get as many options open wise but there are many kids out there needing a lovig home, and at least in canada gov pays all court fees etc once a child found. only fee ive had is travel and medical form fee from doc. Whatever you happen to decide though i hope works out well for you.
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