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Hi you guys this is the first time I'm writing. Well first of let me tell you guys what I'm going through. I have a 4 years old baby girl who I have been fighting for every right and protecting her for the last 4 years. Now her father and I have gone our separate ways before she was born. After my daughter was born while I was in a shelter hiding from her birth father I've learned that he had an unfair while together and was expecting a baby boy elsewhere. 5 months after my daughter's birth her half brother was born. Years went by with court issues of custody between birth dad and I and thanks to my Lord Jesus and God I've proven my case many times and now have full custody of my daughter. The thing is now we are back in court therefore my daughter made a complain to our family and to her school that her stepmother had tried to choke her. I went ballistic and still am very upset and disappointed at her dad for not defending his daughter. Well like any other real mother I went back to court with a criminal case now and a DYFs case at hand. I did however told the judge he was a good dad which he is to a certain extent and he has never hurt my daughter personally so I do want him to be in her life and wont take his rights as a dad, however the lady he has wont be around my daughter therefore I am indeed afraid that would've have been a much worst scenario. Now my daughter came home before telling me that her stepmother had physically hurt her lil brother and that he bled once after she hit him in his mouth. I've approach the dad and i said it was none of my business the way he discipline his son but I would appreciate for him to not do so in front of our daughter. Dad apologized and said it wont happen again therefore he doesn't want his son to think he is being discipline only when our daughter is around. Now I was indeed concerned and so I've inform my daughter's school so they could keep an eye on her. Now that the case of my daughter is in court his visitations has been suspended, he gave up his supervised visits and told the judge he wont see his daughter unless is with his wife and family. The judge has given me my daughter THANKS GOD and we have another court date on the 31st of march. I am hoping investigation comes to the conclusion that this man can only see my daughter under supervised visitations with anyone in my family ---doesn't have to be me---- and far away from his wife. Now the wife is under investigation for her own son as well and if Children Services takes this kid away for foster care I am willing to adopt him and raise him along with my daughter so that their bond of brothers wont be damage. I have the best of intentions and know that my family will help me every step of the way. I am 22 years old and became a mother very young. I am however very loving and very responsible the dad is 29 and he is a professional male who financially speaking has much more to offer than I do. What do you guys think? If this child goes to foster care after investigations do I have a shot in adopting him. And what about my case? Could I trust my baby won't be exposed to violence when with her dad?
Thanks in advance... :grouphug:
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