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Quantum, girl, you gave me a nightmare! Wait, it just occurred to me-- please don't relate that to kookoo lady making it clear you're her nightmare...I mean it literally, as in a bad dream, and I'm blaming you goodnaturedly. :love:
I had a dream that was absolutely completely related to Quantum's son's wack-a-doodle amom (not applicable to all amoms of course...just this one, k?) :arrow: lecturing her that she better not ever call him her son!
In my dream, M's husband corners DH and I in this weird warehouse place (where for some reason there is a bench-like bed that DH sleeps on?) and starts yelling at us that we had better not EVER be referring to his kids as J's "friends"! (see the correlation, Quantum?...it's what you were ordered to call A, my dream was just the opposite) In the dream, I was stunned and thinking to myself that we have never called them that and never would, because, why would we? It's not what they are! I try to tell M's hubby that we've never called them "friends" and we've only ever called them brother/sister or half-brother/sister. But he stays angry and insists that he has heard us referring to them as "friends" and we had better not EVER do that! In my dream, I keep thinking, what in world does he think he's hearing? I know we've never called them that so I know he's mistaken, but where is he even getting this? Where is this coming from? Why is he thinking that we do??? And what the h---? He calls me "Heidi from CA" and he's yelling at me that he thinks he heard us say that his kids were J's "friends", which we never have???
Then I woke up, all disconcerted and upset and grumpy of course.
Seriously, Q, your crazy attack letter from A's mom has spawned several discussions, and now I'm having dreams!
Maybe we here at a.com, should send her a thank you note for all the excitement her looney-tune-ishness has given us. Thanks wacky lady...now you're messing with my dreams!
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How did I miss this post? LOL.
Poor Heidi!! She's given me nightmares as well.
And yes indeedy Kathy, I certainly have thought that this was a divorce that was justified! (btw apparently SHE left HIM, she got remarried once, divorced and took back A's adads last name after he remarried!.
Wackadoodle indeed.
Well, we're now over 2 weeks into the 3 week visit. It's going pretty well. Amom HAS started what I call 'spraying her territory' again, that is posting in places on FB where it doesn't quite make sense 'oh you are the best son EVER'. That is, places where she KNOWs I'll read it. And that's fine, I have to agree with her. LOL. But I know it's a not so subtle way of her to stake her claim.
I've talked a bit to DS and his fiancee. Basically saying that I will absolutely not rise to her bait. I'll not say or do anything inappropriate to her. However, I am not willing to pretend like nothing has transpired as in, when we come to the states next time, I am NOT going out of my way to have a 'special' breakfast just with her. Also, last time, on our last day there, stepmom felt sorry for amom and invited her over for lunch. Amom then proceeded to corner me while I was packing to inform me how it was 100% nurture etc etc. What was the point really?
I was busy saying 'oh it's really a shame we weren't in a more open situation as I would have loved to reassure you that I was not going to take him back in the 3 month waiting period (or whatever it was).
Anyway, I'm not going to play nice there, as in if stepmom says 'shall I invited amom?' I will say 'I'd rather not' instead of 'SURE why not!'
*sigh*
In the meantime, the visit is good, although somethings said meaning well, do sting a bit.
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