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Crick -
You deleted her post on this thread [url]http://forums.adoption.com/i-chose-adoption/382526-new-here-pregnant-am-making-adoption-plan.html[/url] yesterday. She reposted almost the same thing today. I deleted but what do you want for follow up?
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Just recevied this PM from her
Why are you deleting my posts? This poor woman needs some REAL understanding, sensitivity, and help and needs to post on the forums that will provide that...she is NOT getting sensitive, empathetic birthparent responses or special needs parent advice for her situation, she is getting happy face paps telling her time will make it better, an open adoption will make everything OK, and she'll never regret placing her baby to keep her violent son in the family. I have posted twice, both times validating her feelings and the impossibility of the choice she faces and both times advising her to post on the Birthparents Support forum and the Special Needs forum (to hear from parents actually dealing with such situations) and both times somebody has deleted those posts. What gives?
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Oh, it doesn't bother me. Attack away. I hate having my opinion dismissed, but attacks I am ok with. I might be sorry, but I am ok with it. :D
Her posts and PM's do make me nuts due to that 'educated intelligent 7 paragraph way' of writing. In journalism school we were taught to be straight-forward, to the point, and to write at a 7th grade reading level. She goes on like she is writing a disseration and I have an overwhelming urge to edit her down to the actual point of her post.