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I'm not sure this was ever really in the right place to begin with, and I don't believe any birth parents have really responded, so that might be okay....
I'm just not sure how hot the whole thing of only going for adoptions where there's no bdad being around is going to go over. (Dang birth Dad's stepping in to parent! How dare they?) Probably fine. I don't know. (Though the thread feels icky to me....again, maybe just because of placement?)
I really don't think it will be a problem, but you never know who's going to pick up the thread next!
I haven't checked it today, but I have been following it. It could, I suppose, be moved. I'm currently trying not to respond to the entitlement attitude. I do hear the pain of the failed adoption and I know they are hurting since this was to be "their baby." The problem is, unless it's a surrogate mother, it's not their child yet.
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Yeah....I mean, at this point, no one's been upset about the location of the thread, so I'm not TOO worried....more shocked that no one saw it and was irritated earlier! That, or some people have found self-restraint? nah ;)
I went ahead and moved it to failed & contested. I was going to put it in GAPS but didn't want too much attention drawn to it.
I know she is hurting and that needs to be respected, but wow...it's a trigger statement about the dad for sure.
I did think her last post was a bid more restrained. I can see why, if this the second time the bdad ended the adoption, why her emotions would be heightened.
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kakuehl
We don't deal in self restraint around here do we?
LOL! Too funny! That made my night!
crick
I went ahead and moved it to failed & contested. I was going to put it in GAPS but didn't want too much attention drawn to it.
I know she is hurting and that needs to be respected, but wow...it's a trigger statement about the dad for sure.
Cool.
It wasn't the worst thread or anything, just knowing the landscape recently....it seemed a potential trigger situation for sure.