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[url]http://forums.adoption.com/foster-parent-support/386328-disgusting-gifts.html[/url]
i posted a warning....and i'm going to go back and read it again to make sure i am not missing anything that needs to be deleted. but it is going down hill fast. i bet it will need to be locked by the end of the night.
i wanted to post as a member and at least say that even if she feels this way, she needs to be careful about what she is communicating to these children. she did not ask for advice.....but she threw alot of negativity out there, and i don't know what she expects other than flames.
i edited my warning to be bolded and in red, and i hope that keeps it from going over the edge. i don't see anything that needs to be modded....lots of mean things, but i don't know that her personal feelings about the mom of her fk's violates the tos. i think it is stupid to make disparaging remarks about someone like that online...i think it is a fast way to lose fk's and your foster license....but i can't follow people around making sure they don't do dumb things.
do you disagree?
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Your reminder of respectful participation was the right call. Her info, tone and stuff said about mom is HER ISSUE if sw finds out or is called to court later etc.
I have zero tolerance for the b.s. that follows sometimes regarding these types of posts where they then pm me begging to delete so they aren't found out. Too bad.
They sign whatever disclosures etc. with their counties and it's not up to us to figure those rules out or police.
good....i'm glad i made the right call. and that is why i threatened to lock it, but not delete it. :) thanks for the reassurance!
She is nuts if she thinks everyone would respond with a "Poor thing!" tone after the way she put it. I mean, I wouldn't give my kids a rotten anything either but I can also think of many other ways to vent about this in a more positive way.
She just looks and sounds mean now.
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