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I was born August 23, 1985 in Syracuse NY, Onondaga County. The only info I have on my Birth parents is as follows....all at time of birth.... Mother - 26yrs old, Brown curly hair, blue eyes, medium skin, Nurses aide/homemaker, 5'4", 160-170lbs, easy going, good disposition, quick tempered, shy, doesn't sunburn easily. Loved to bowl and help others. Adjustment disorder with mixed emotional features. Father - 27yrs old, red thin curly hair, Hazel eyes, medium skin, 270lbs "Large Frame" 6'1", nice, kind, considerate, a clown, head strong, even-tempered. Heath was good.
Health History of Birth Mother - It was reported the my Mother had been hospitalized at some point for psychiatric problems and that she had a mental or nervous disorder associated with depression. It was also noted that she had a developmental disorder as indicated by being a slow learner. Prental care began in the 4th month. The pregnancy was normal and lasted full term. I weighed 3,320 grams at birth. My Apgar score was 5, at 1 minute and was 6, at 5 minutes.
Health history of Birth Father - My father's health was reported to be good.
Facts and circumstances Relating to the nature and cause of the adoption. - An agency case was opened in 1985 as a result of said agency recieving a referring from a local hospital. My mother had given birth to me and had threatened suicide. My mother and father felt incapable of caring for an infant. I was placed from the hospital into foster care. My parents did visit and engage in services for 2 years and 2 months before signing over parental rights. After signing the surrender, neither parent requested my return within 30 days of the date of surrender. The adoption was handled by Onondaga county department of Social Services.
Personal note to Birth parents - I do not care why you had to give me up. I understand that you felt it was best for me. I do not feel any anger towards you for any reason, only love. I need to meet you and be able to know where and who I am. I can not move on with my life until I close my past. I understand if you do not wish to hold a relationship with me. But I just need to fill this hole in my heart. Please do not be afraid of rejection. You will not find it here. Only open arms and love. I love you and miss you both so much. I pray you are searching for me as well.
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