Hello all...

Hello to all, I'm a semi recently found adoptee... I had posted several years ago on a website for a birthparent search and low and behold it paid off 5 years later much to my shock. I have had contact with my bio-mom, bio-dad and 2 adult siblings from his side. (all of her kids are younger) I have actually met both sibs and bio-dad, but I have just had limited contact from bio-mom... I'm really not sure what to think or feel with her. I never got any pushiness or neediness from bio-dad, just a general wanted to get to know me and see who I was type thing, and as an only child, having siblings for the first time is a neat experiance... but dealing with bio-mom is a whole other issue. I kinda get the feeling she expected me to do cartwheels and run right out and meet her, and when that didnt happen she started to push a little bit more. part of me really doesnt want to even meet her and I'm not really sure why other then it makes me feel really uncomfortable, like she is looking for more then I can give her. Anyone else been through any reservations or anything like this? It's not that I'm harbouring anger or anything towards her, I have great parents and I feel very complete in my family... I guess I'm just not sure what to do with her??