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I learned to just go with the flow of things. DD and I have gotten closer and she has come to spend time with me at my home. My other daughter unfortunately has the green eyed monster and gets jealous if her focus isnt 100% on her. DD asked if she could stay the night at her grandmas so she and I could catch up with no distractions. I love that she calls me mom but she calls me by my name in front of aparents, her adad does not like the increased contact but DD has made it clear she will continue to have a relationship with us.
She will be 17 in a few days. She and I stayed up all night talking, sh had many questions and I was completely honest with her. She said she felt like we were the other part of her life she was missing, she always knew something wasnt right, that her life was incomplete before finding out about us. Aparents will always be her parents but she is so different so much more connected to us because we are blood. We have spent so much time together and it has been wonderful. Unfortunately aparents split as a result, it gave amom the strength to be happy on her own terms dealing with our new family unification.