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It's been a couple of weeks since my last post (summer is busy here too, but I still have to mother these boys, despite the busy).
So where am I in the caos (great that it is) of my mothering life... well I suddenly have a defiant five year old. Go figure. He's just full of attitude, but with tantrums attached to it. I thought I knew the w's of this, but it appears there is more to it. So I've done some research and found a suggestion for some solutions. I also ordered a few books that came across my path (love to read and learn - 45 years of age does not equal know it all). [I just had a ping ... I"m going to look into a blog! - maybe that will help keep my sanity].
Anyway, for what it's worth and if anyone is interested in this whole adoptive mothers support thing... I'd be happy to hear your thoughts.
[url=http://www.babycenter.com/0_defiance-why-it-happens-and-what-to-do-about-it_66564.bc]Defiance: Why it happens and what to do about it | BabyCenter[/url]
The books are:
1. Children the Challenge - by Rudolf Dreikurs
2. How To Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by A. Faber.
Next week hubby and I celebrate a big milestone in our marriage and we are all off for a wonderful vacation by the ocean. I am looking forward to being alone with my family where we know no one and can just be .... sometimes anonymous has its advantages.
I hope all of you are creating good out of your own caos and happy summer.
Miss M - sporting new highlights (non orange version) :cop: [baby boy wanted this smily face]:cowboy:
I've read the references you cited. The second one, how to talk so your child will listent is great.
Ultimately I found defiance explained well in the magical child and some of Rudolph Steiners work. Exploring limits and boundaries of the world they live in.
I did not struggle too much with my child's defiance probably because of the method I learned to work with it. I looked at her position from her point of view and we changed it together which led to all kinds of exciting adventures!:laundry:
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