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hey everyone =)
I'm 10 weeks (guesstimated) pregnant.. depo failed & my fiance is just a few months away from a planned vasectomy..
we've already decided on adoption (it was the only choice for us - I've never had a desire to have children and abortion is NOT an option for him)
first dr appt tomorrow
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While you are in a tough spot it sounds like your fiance is supportive of the choice of adoption.
I never wanted kids either, I was on and IUD and thought there was no way I could be pregnant. At 22 weeks I went to the doctor thinking I was diabetic. Well I wasn't diabetic but pregnant. My boyfriend of two years was furious. I was scared and alone but I knew from the moment I saw his little feet on that first ultra sound that there was no way I could ever terminate the pregnancy. I wanted to try and be a single parent as I knew from that first ultra sound how much I loved him.
My ex split and wanted nothing to do with either of us, I was laid off from work and denied unemployment.
Facing homelessness with no family to turn to and being 7 months pregnant I decided that adoption was the only option for my little boy.
I will never regret that I gave him life. I will never regret that he has two wonderful parents that love him and that he will have everything I couldn't provide for him.
You are brave to have decided on adoption as I know it is never an easy choice. I hope everything goes well for. I loved my adoption Agency and if you would like more info on them please feel free to PM me. They took my horrible situation and managed to make things okay. I couldn't have made it through this without them.
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