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Hi, looking for my son who I had to give up for adoption18 years ago. The adoption was a open one and then as he got older the adoptive parents stoped sending me updates. I only know his birthday and his adopted first and middle name, I was not alowed to know his last name. I have since had 3 more childern and I would Love to see my son and for him to meet his half brothers. Any help would be so great, thanks.
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I can try to help you look. I am an adoptee, and recently found my birth family, and couldn't be happier. I wish you all the best luck, and from the other side, we all wish our birth mother's were looking for us, even if we can't fully admit it. Your child loves you, no matter what other people say, and they think about you on a regular basis. Even if I can't find them for you, if you need to talk, I'm here.
dfhnyc9,
Thank you for your comment. That's the kind of thing many of us birthmothers need to hear. :-)
After speaking to my birth mother at length, we both realized our fears and feelings had been pretty much the same since I was born. And the only stories I remember before my own search ended sadly, so of course I was scared. The news loves sad stories, and is less likely to publicize the ones with hope and joy. So since our reunion we decided to try and give others hope for their searches in what every way we could, which is why I randomly post on these things.
I am a birth mother that gave her son to a family 24 years ago. All I had to go on is the state they lived in, his first name, and his date of birth. I found him on the internet. I also found a long lost brother with the help of a search angel. All I had was his mother's name and a generalized year. Never give up. The biggest thing I have found, and everyone on here that is in reunion will agree, it is a roller coaster of emotions. Good luck in your search and keep us posted.
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