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I had 3 children from a previous marriage that turned abusive. I was 21 when my youngest was born. By the time I was 22 I had to put all three of my children up for adoption for their safety. I was too young and too immature to raise them on my own and my ex was psychotic. Now I am almost 28 and I have gone back to college and I graduate next year. I have a new boyfriend and we have been dating for several months now. How and when do I tell him that I had 3 kids that I put up for adoption? He already knows about the abusive marriage and he knows I had my tubes tied, but when he asked why I wasn't ready to tell him so I just told him that I'd had problems in the past. I think I might be ready to tell him, but I don't know if he's ready. Help me please.
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I would bring up the tied tubes thing again and just tell him. The reality is if you are going to tell him sooner is better than later and if he is not ok with it then he is not the right guy for you. I am sure that he will be understanding being that you were in such an awful situation and it really doesn't affect him unless he is wanting children in the future and then you should consider whether or not you are willing to get a reversal. Best of luck. I hope it works out for you.
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