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Is the health history of the potential adoptive parents a major issue when it comes to trying to adopt?
I had breast cancer 4 years ago (because of chemo was put into early menopause and not able to have my own bio baby :( ) and my husband is a retired vet (20yrs in the Navy) but he also retired with 100% disability because he has Parkinson's Disease.
Money is definitly not an issue for taking care of a child, and we are also both able to stay at home and I believe we could provide a very loving and caring home.
I'm just concerned that because of our health history we will not be able to adopt either.
Does anyone have any clue as to if this will be a problem?
Thanks
D
As part of the physical for my homestudy I needed a doctor's statement regarding my life expectancy. Obviously, no doctor is going to be able to guarantee anything, but the point of it was to ensure that I was healthy enough to raise a child and more likely than not to live to do so. I would guess that, based on your health history, the homestudy agency would probably want greater reassurances from a doctor that you would be able to care for a child to adulthood. If you think that your health will not be a problem in raising a child, I would probably talk with whatever agency you are thinking of using and see what they have to say.
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Ditto to the past poster regarding the physicals. We had to get physicals and then also a statement from the doctor indicating our physical ability to parent. We are with an agency doing a private infant domestic adoption.
Not sure if you are interested in the foster to adopt or private adoption sector but I have had conversations with different professionals - social workers, agency directors, adoption facilitators who have indicated that for (private adoptions birth mothers) adoptive parents looking older is a big disadvantage v. having a disability. Our agency social worker told us a few months ago in passing conversation that they had successful matches with a couple whose husband had MS and another couple in which the woman (adoptive mother) had a some degree of cerebral palsy. I think it really goes down to the home study visits and the doctor physical and recommendation. Again, this is my knowledge and only within the private sector - not sure if it is the same with foster to adopt.