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my daughter has 6 years old and I know nothing about her first bm.
once i decided to tell her that she is adopted, but after reading some books which explain the feelings of kids after knowing that they are adopted (frustrating, unhappy, not self confident, feeling always that they have not confidence in therselfs because someone abondant them, feeling different from other kids, sad in their anniversary date.....) i decided to tell her after 2 or 3 years that i couldn't get pregnant and we did (bebe eprouvette) in lab and one woman accepted to get pregnant with her but we are her real parents, like that she will be safe from bad feelings especially that u live in a small society that will not accept the real situation.
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Are u saying u wont tell your daughter she's adopted?But when she was 2 or 3 ,u told her u couldn't get pregnant.But what happened when mom looks for her,tells her why she made the heart breaking decision,to put her up for adoption?Or she finds out you've been lying to her all these years.Isn't there records of her being adopted?It doesn't make since to keep adoption a secret,when someone may tell her or she may find out.
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I can't help but wonder if this post is real. If so, it's bad enough to not tell a person they are adopted, but it's downright awful, in my opinion, to flat out lie about their origins.If this is really the situation, I'd be interested to know how you will handle your child's medical history at doctor's visits and how your child would handle their medical history as an adult.I've only scratched the surface of reasons not to do what was in the original post, but I'm in disbelief that a parent would do that, so I'm just going to leave it at what I said.