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It's time to end governmental and agency promises of eternal - or 99-year - sealed adoption records. The laws sealing adoption records were supposedly enacted to protect children from being labeled bastards. Well, I'm a bastard and I have no problem with anyone knowing it, and I'm sure that's the case with most adult adoptees.
Records should be sealed for no more than 18 years. Once the adoptees is an adult, he or she is entitled to ALL records pertaining to the adoption, including, identifying information on both birth parents.
Discussion?
Sealed records suck, but so far, most states have them.
What are you proposing we do about it? Sign one of the many petitions people have tried to start? Contact our state representatives? What?
There should be a time frame when the adoptee or birth "parent" can petition to unseal the records-- say, 20-30 years after birth. 50 years is clearly too much as the birth "parent" may no longer be around.
Perhaps states could have the birth "parent" check a box at birth stating how many years later the adoptee can find out his/her name, if ever.
The term "bastard" is just as offensive as calling the birth "mom" a s--t. Not cool.
Sealed records were originally an attempt to give the birth "parents" anonymity and privacy, and fulfill the desire for adoptive parents to be "the one" parent. Those who established sealed records assumed birth "parents" wouldn't want future contact.
History of sealed records:
[url=http://pages.uoregon.edu/adoption/topics/confidentiality.htm]Adoption History: Confidentiality and Sealed Records[/url]
The fact that adoption information has been both highly regulated and extremely controversial is one of the hallmarks of modern adoption. At first sketchy and incomplete, data contained in the adoption records of early twentieth-century courts and agencies was available to anyone curious enough to search it out. The same was true of uniform birth records, which were products of state efforts to standardize birth registration during the first third of the twentieth century.
In 1917, the Minnesota adoption law was revised to mandate confidential records, and between the world wars, most states in the country followed suit. Confidential records placed information off limits to nosy members of the public but kept it accessible to the children and adults directly involved in adoption, who were called the parties in interest.Ӕ
Confidentiality was advocated by professionals and policy-makers determined to establish minimum standards in adoption, decrease the stigma associated with illegitimacy, and make child welfare the governing rule in placement decisions. In practice, confidentiality placed a premium on adoptions arranged anonymously, without any identifying contact between natal and adoptive parents. Confidentiality also meant that when courts issued adoption decrees, states produced new birth certificates, listing adopters names, and sealed away the originals, which contained the names of birth parents, or at least birth mothers.
Many adopters, especially those whose infertility made them long for exclusive parent-child ties, surely preferred anonymity as well. Confidentiality made it possible for some of these parents to avoid telling their children that they were adopted at all. The relatives of many unmarried birth mothers also favored confidentiality. Especially during the postwar baby boom, when more out-of-wedlock births occurred in middle-class families than had been the case earlier in the century, mortified parents argued that their daughters should have a second chance to lead normal, married lives. Maternity homes proliferated to shield non-marital pregnancies from public view and helped to make adoption a topic of embarrassment and shame.
Anonymity and new birth certificates were both consistent with matching, which set out to make new families ғas if they had been made naturally. Confidentiality was converted into secrecy only after World War II. Secrecy meant that even adult adoptees, to their great surprise and frustration, could not obtain information about their births and backgrounds. The intentions behind confidentiality were benevolent, but sealed records created an oppressive adoption closet.
Even though sealed records were recent inventions, rather than enduring features of adoption history, they were largely responsible for the adoption reform movement that gathered steam in the 1970s. New York housewife Florence Fisher set out to find her birth mother and inspired adoptees around the country when she founded the AdopteesԒ Liberty Movement Association, a pioneering reform organization that called sealed records an affront to human dignity.Ӕ At the time, few adoption activists realized the newness of the policies they sought to overturn by opening sealed records, facilitating search and reunion, and advocating open adoption. Records activism attracted great sympathy but achieved relatively few practical victories and sealed records continue to provoke heated controversy today. Many states have established mutual consent registries, which aim for compromise between the rights of adult adoptees to obtain birth information and the assurance that many birth mothers were given that their identities would remain confidential. Sealed records are also the target of militant activism by such groups as Bastard Nation, which succeeded in passing Ballot Measure 58, an open records law, in the state of Oregon in 1998.
Until 1945, however, most members of adoptive families in the United States had perfectly legal access to birth certificates and adoption-related court documents and most agencies acted as passive registries through which separated relatives might locate one another. Disclosurenot secrecyחhas been the historical norm in adoption.
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Veronica, I agree that sealed records are obscene, insulting and in theory, go against our constitutional rights. That being said, there are bills floating around in most states governements' to change the laws surrounding closed records. Because adoption is a big money making industry, there are lobbyists representing NCFA that make changing the laws hard. IMHO, adoption should be governed by national laws, but then, adoption agencies won't have ways to be creative about making adoption easier and family preservation harder. (Look at the putative father laws in many states- UT in particular.)
If you want to get involved, look into the bills pending in the state of your birth and adoption- if different (which is not uncommon.) Find out how you can help in moving the bills along by letter writing, faxing, speaking to lawmakers. We need to be as present as the adopton agencies' lobbyists... we need to show that we need medical updates, the right to our own information. We need to make sure that lawmakers know that birthmothers were not promised anonymity- that the majority of birthparents WANT some level of contact.
We need to work together to make changes!