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[URL="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/16/autism-diagnosis-lose-outgrow_n_2489145.html?1358370940&ncid=txtlnkushpmg00000067"]Can Some Children 'Lose' Autism Diagnosis? New Evidence Says Yes[/URL] End with cautions that it is few and to never beat yourself up if your child is not one. Kind regards,Dickons
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Sorry but I believe if you ""outgrow"" it you didn't have it. misdiagnosis.
I don't think you 'outgrow' it ever. Autism is a 'born with, die with' thing and if you have it, that is a part of you.I have met people with aspergers who CAN communicate very well including thir non-verbal communication, picking up cues etc. You could never tell they had autism based on a few meetings with them, and they wouldn't ever need to tell people. They could be great teachers, doctors, do many jobs requiring good communication skillsHOWEVER, I think that is because they a) taught themselves to be this good and it requires more effort from them than for a neurotypical person, and b) their coping mechanisms are very goodThey are very clear that they have it, and have some minor difficulties for instance sensory issues and they find social interaction draining, however good at it they are. They have this, they have a few issues, it's just one part of them, and they have developed excellent coping skills and made themselves become very good with social interactionsObviously, its a spectrum and many people with autism are much more severely affected.My friend (with aspegers) changed my thinking forever on this when she explained it the way she sees it. She is one person who has a few issues but communicates excellently, although at a young age she could not and required lots of help making friends and knowing what to say when etc. She views her autism as one facet of her, like having blue eyes. She loves herself for who she is, and as such she views her autism as a great thing, a wonderful part of her. Not a problem, although it might be for many people with more severe autism. She would view it as horrific and insulting if someone suggested it was some disease she could heal from, a really perjorative thing that suggested she was a bad person. She thinks her autism is not seperate from her, but just part of her and helped make her who she is, so to say it's ALWAYS a bad thing makes her partly a bad person, 'wrong' person. Which is very sad
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