What are your plans now?

we opted for china and doing the special needs, which is only about 12-18 months. We also looked at domestic, but I think for us, we have two biological children and were doing the IA to follow our calling to take care of an orphan, and not because we wanted more kids (I'm sure that's not coming out right, but I don't want to make it seem like I think anything is wrong with domestic) I really think all of us have to figure out what is best for our family, and I think it would be impossible to compare what each of us decides given our current situation. I talked to someone at the agency yesterday and they said that until they hear something more definitive, they are holding out on giving any money back. Honestly, I anticipate not seeing any of it back. We didn't want to wait very long either mainly because our boys are getting older and we didn't want her to feel like an only child.