I'm curious... Do all the adoptees here expect to have kids?
The words "I want to have a baby" have never, ever, ever come out of my mouth.
I feel like I've spent the majority of my life trying to avoid it. And failed! Which is a sad way to think IMO.
After noticing most of my grandmothers, for many generations, had at least 10, some 20+.
I'd say by only having 2, I did accomplish my goal fairly well, with what I had to work with. Thank God for modern science.
Probably the opposite thing to say on this type of forum.
For me, now, I do know that loosing my mother and being adopted had much to do with my attitude about having children.
And a whole lot to do with how I raised them.
