Naming second child

I think there is no way to predict how your child will feel when they grow up, so what matters most is that the names are special. We have the reverse. DS #1 has a middle name from his birthmother. DS#2 does not (because of her choice) but has two names that are very special in meaning for us. They were both named in love, and that is what we share when we talk about names. Everything about adoption is about love.