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WE are on totally opposite sides and I got blind sided at the case plan. The new foster parents are awesome and everyt9ing I heard about them is true. I love their style cause they won't put up with any crap and shook our hands etc.
BUT they insist on weekly visits to keep the case plan goal reintegration. Well if it goes OPPLA they do not have to offer visits or phone calls which scares the crap out of my husband. So they agreed to count therapy as a visit but now I have to do weekly therapy with her and I dk know if I want to do anymore therapy really. I don't think I can get past this girl choosing to live with other people. Choosing foster care over your family.
Of course husband loves her in spite of herself but he was not the victim of her emotional abuse. I can't stand he could want a close bond with someone who did all that crap to me.
Huge fight tonight. I am gonna cry myself to sleep. she always wins.
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I'm so sorry, Sass. Has he at least acknowledged that she did hurt you? That she did direct the abuse at you? Or does he dispute that as a basic truth?
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(((hugs))) Would you and Dh be willing to go to couples counseling through this time? It might help to keep things on a more even keel between you and Dh - communication with a neutral third party to help things along?
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Yes but I don't think he understands the extent of the abuse or what it has done to me and my mental state.
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