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My husband and I have two biological children. We are bicultural and bilingual. Our primary language at home is Spanish. We were under the impression that there was a high need for bilingual/bicultural foster families. We live in an urban setting where Latinos make up about 16% of the population. We completed our certification classes and paperwork over 7 months ago. Our certifier took many months to complete home visits, the last of which she did two months ago. in total it has been 9 months since we began the process. Our certifier called me today and stated that there would be little chance of any children within the parameters of what we requested, who need foster care that come through their office; as such it would not be worth completing our home study. We had said our preference was a school-age child that was able to speak Spanish, as that is the primary language spoken in our home. I asked if other counties may refer kids that might be a good fit for us but she stated this would not be a possibility, that it had to be within our county. We were told that if we were willing to open our parameters up to English only speakers that we could be certified. Our concern is that a child who does not understand our primary language will not feel very comfortable in our home. We also want to continue to speak Spanish with our children so they can benefit from being bilingual. I am concerned that knowing this certifier it may be just an excuse for not wanting to complete the home study report. We are confused and a bit frustrated that no one told us this from the start. It would have saved everyone time and resources. If anyone has any knowledge or experience with this type of situation I would greatly appreciate the input!Thanks!
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Maybe there was something in the home study they didn't like but you would think it is part of their job to be honest. My husband and I are not very intimidating. Plus when she broke the news that they would have no placements for us she finished by saying what a nice family we were. Something is odd about the whole situation. I just don't know whether to give up and say it wasn't meant to be or try to pursue the issue further. Thanks for your replies!
My current FS speaks only English but he was placed in several foster homes that spoke Spanish only. His bio mom was thrilled that my home is English only as she couldn't communicate with the other foster parents and we suspect that is a reason he is so speech delayed. He was in 7 different foster homes, he's 2.5 years old. RU'd 4 times that I know of, probably more.
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It doesn't seem right to send a child to a home where their dominant language is not spoken :( I talked with our certifier's supervisor and she told me that YES indeed there is a need for families like ours and we WILL be certified and placed with a Spanish speaking foster child. The issue does seem to have been related to our certifier not wanting to put in the time to write our home study. Sad but I am glad we will have the opportunity to provide a safe and caring home to a child/children in need. Bless you all for your hard work and caring hearts!