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we have had baby boy his whole life starting at 10 days old. well dad surrened his rights back in feb. baby boy d will be 18 months old soon and we are heading for adoption. hopefully by oct. or nov. is what we have been told. well for the bad news bio dad died yesterday sun. by his own hands . cw called me this afternoon and let me know. don't know how to handle this the baby can't understand any of this we have 1 picture of him from a visit last winter that I will put in a book cw said she will get me a copy of the obit. to tell baby boy when he is a lot older . he will know he is adopted as he is bi racial and we are both white. im just so sad
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Oh my gosh! I am so sorry for baby boy. This has been my greatest fear, if a child's bios pass away. You'll know the right thing to say to him when the time comes.
I'm so sorry :(
my sons bio father passed away a couple of days before the adoption. He was shot...I cried my eyes out over the loss of this young man, the waste of his life...and the choices he made....
I think of him often. I hope he can see how much we love his son, our son...
I'm glad you have a picture.
Oh, I am so sorry for the terrible news!! How very shocking for your family! I feel sad for all the children who will find out that their birth parents made so many terrible mistakes. For our little angel it was that her parents repeatedly chose drugs over her and her siblings... Hoping you feel a sense of peace that at least your little sweetheart is safe with you and when the time comes to share this part of his history with him that you will have the right words!
If you are able to find out where he went to high school, you may be able to get a copy of one of his school picks or an old year book or such.
I'm so sorry you are faced with this situation. It is not an easy thing to deal with.
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heartbreaking. i hate when people feel so lost and hopeless. i hope i never have to have this conversation with happy baby but unfortunately his biomom makes very poor decisions for herself
prayers for you, your family and others grieving this tragic loss
So sorry.
Similar situation here. My daughter's bio father relinquished his rights & died some time later from alcohol poisoning. I saved his obit (which says he had no children :( ) and ordered a copy of the death certificate, so that she can have it when she's older.
That is so sad. :(
I check the news daily expecting to see my FD's mom arrested or OD'd. I know someone she ran with died recently. There are so many stories in my area of that lately- drugs, drugs and more drugs.
Every life is precious- every adult drug addict that od's is/was someone's precious child. We live in a broken world.
Prayers to you and your FS.
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