Advertisements
Advertisements
Would people mind writing about their reunion experience and why it was so bad?
I am not looking for drama, just facts like "she told me that she wished I was never born" or "Your dad never would have left me if I had not gotten pregnant with you".
Specific things like that.
Thanks
Tank, I'll write more about the reunion with my son and the following 23 years later, since it's almost midnight. But to sum up the most difficult problem is easy: his drug addiction to crystal methamphetamine. He was strung out when I first met him shortly after his 18th birthday, and cleaned up when he was 22. He was clean for well over 15 years, but then last year he convinced a psychiatrist to prescribe him ADHD drugs (he's now 41 years old). These drugs should never be taken by recovering addicts -- it led him right back to crystal meth.
Advertisements
Mine started off cautiously then it became good. We had our ups and downs but that's normal. Sadly we haven't had contact for a few years as my son is a narcissist. He blames everybody for everything that goes wrong in his life with him blaming me the most closely followed by his adopters. He's even blamed me for him getting into debt even though I couldn't possibly done so. A number of people also believe he is a fantasist as he claims to have three degrees even though hasn't got any as an example and makes other claims to make himself seem important. I love very much but if I want him to have important information I do so via his adopters.