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Well yippee! Youngest daughter posts a rank on facebook about how abused she is and finally DH's eyes are opened and we have CUT contact.
Oldest daughter comes home and announces she is pregnant. LOL no big deAL compared to what the youngest has put us through.
Seriously I never thought I would not want my own kids in my lives. The oldest son was soooo conscending this morning. Telling me we are lucky he is so forgiving and we are in his life because we need him not the other way around. Sorry we were such ****ty parents but you were not exactly the model kids either. I truly don't give a rats *** if he comes before he goes to Afghanistan or not. He makes me uncomfortable in my own home and I am sick of tip toeing around him!
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Me too but even if we are not. I am really to the point I am okay with him having a relationship with her without me. I have finally hit the wall. It is so peacefful not to havve to deal with it. I am curious to see what the worker says at our monthly meeting Friday where we meet with just the worker and get updated.
She was shocked my husband had finally had enough. I am sure he is shocked I have had it with the older son. These kids have some deep seeded feelings of resentment that are being projected onto us and I am sick of it. I did the best I could. They were not typical children and therefore could not be typically parented apparently but they were not model children either. There is plenty of forgiveness to go around and blame.
So sad i truly wish we had not adopted at this point if it were not for my oldest.
Sorry it's gotten worse instead of better with your other kids. Hoping there's some resolution for you (even if it's just changes in how you and husband communicate).
Actually it is better with the oldest and the oldest son has always been kind of that way. two out of 4 I guess 50% success rate.