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Our birthmother after 12 years is sending us text demanding a car and demanding money. She is stating we owe her something because she placed her baby with us. I have no idea how she found us and now my parents are getting strange texts as well. Is there anywhere we can turn for support? OUr adoption agency closed and so has the agency that took care of our home study. It is terrifying she feels this way and erratic behavior. We do know drugs are involved. I simply need somewhere to turn to for help. We are not giving her anything else. Your advice or someone to reach out to is appreciated.
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It’s been a couple of months since you posted, and hopefully things have gotten better.Definitely look in to how she got your contact information, first and foremost, especially if it wasn’t given to her. This is important for your safety and your child’s safety. If she has a history of erratic or impulsive behavior my worry would be that she may just show up and cause a scene. Take the steps to change all phone numbers if you feel it necessary, and make sure they are unlisted. If the behavior continues it might be time to think about a restraining order, or harassment order.And remember: you do not owe birthmom anything other than what was outlined in your contract. A car, money, and any other outlandish requests go way above anything you’d ever need to provide.
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