Adopted Mom of 2

Hello all I am an adopted mom of two wonderful boys. I just discovered this sight and love it. I have so many questions that I have no idea where to start. Both of my boys came from strange situations, one was done thru the system almost 8 years ago with a strange circumstance. Anyone familiar with Munchasen Syndrome By Proxy? The other one is in the process as we speak it is a private one and almost completed by the end of the year. I am into scrapebooking and love the ideas I have seen here. We are dealing with a lot of behavioral problems with the youngest one any suggestions would be helpful. He has Sensory Integration with severe drug and substances abuse from both parents, also there is more but I can't recall it at the moment. Anyone intersted in chatting let me know.....