I Have A Name

May 21, 2006 I just started my search yesterday and i already have a name- Scott L. Valeen. I found he has an older sister, also an adoptee, named Stacey. Her birthdate is one year and one day after mine. I have phone numbers but am scared to call. My mom is crying all the time, begging me one second to call and the next to just leave it alone. What do I do? I want to know he's had a good life, and I'd like to share some medical info with him. We'll see.......