Zoe Mello

It’s been a couple of months since you posted, and hopefully things have gotten better.Definitely look in to how she got your contact information, first and foremost, especially if it wasn’t given to her. This is important for your safety and your child’s safety. If she has a history of erratic or impulsive behavior my worry would be that she may just show up and cause a scene. Take the steps to change all phone numbers if you feel it necessary, and make sure they are unlisted. If the behavior continues it might be time to think about a restraining order, or harassment order.And remember: you do not owe birthmom anything other than what was outlined in your contract. A car, money, and any other outlandish requests go way above anything you’d ever need to provide.