Hello and I hope this reaches everything with good vibes. I am a birth mother that gave a baby boy up in Feb 1986. I have horrible memories through Edna Gladney. I was manipulated and coerced complete...Hello and I hope this reaches everything with good vibes. I am a birth mother that gave a baby boy up in Feb 1986. I have horrible memories through Edna Gladney. I was manipulated and coerced completely. I was told lies and adoption was "beautiful". It is anything but beautiful. It is called Human trafficking. If you don't have money you will never adopt from Gladney. The more money the better. Very sad so many people can sit back and know this is very wrong. Not all Birthmom's are addicts or losers. I was 14 yrs old. I don't know how anyone would or could work there. Its a shame. Court papers are just horrifying. I was read my rights and decided to waive my rights. Whoever heard of that to a 14 yr old. I haven't heard from Gladney since I made the bank note ready for payment. I was nothing but a loan paid off early. Nothing is needed anymore. Well after contacting Gladney several times over 30 yrs I found my son with the help of a search angel. I made contact and he is angry at me. Probably told how I didn't want him or whatever which is very far from the truth. He was wanted. Still wanted. The world has come to crap. People don't care about things until it affects them directly. Please don't allow Gladney to "help" you. It will destroy many lives in the process. Sincerely,A birth mother who hates Gladney.
Hello everyone. I just feel the need to post on here in defense of birth mothers. I am a birth mom. I have put my information out everywhere I couldn't had knowledge of. It has been a long 37 yrs sinc...Hello everyone. I just feel the need to post on here in defense of birth mothers. I am a birth mom. I have put my information out everywhere I couldn't had knowledge of. It has been a long 37 yrs since I seen my son's perfect face. I had high hopes he would come look for me but unfortunately he hasn't. I did my DNA on ancestry and no matches besides family I do already know. I have read several posts from adoptees thinking their birth moms didn't care bc they are not looking for them. I want y'all to know it is not like that more a big percentage of us birth moms. I had a closed adoption. I chose it bc I didn't want to be able to interfere in his life. I didn't want him to be confused by whom I was. I had only hoped his parents would tell him he was adopted and come look for me when he was of age. Now I am stuck with thoughts of not knowing if he knows he is adopted or what was he told about me and why I did it. For the majority of us birth mothers we didn't have a choice in the decision of keeping or adoption. Some may want you to believe that but I didn't have really a choice. My parents said they were not going to raise my child. I was scared because I was 15 yrs old. How was i going to feed my child much less clothed him. No one told me about resources or any help. I knew I couldn't provide because I didn't know better. So please don't be so harsh on your birth mom. If anything at least give her the chance to tell you her side. It could be so difficult than you were told or how it happened. The agency I went through lied and manipulated me and others. I have stories I could tell. I'm not out to bash anyone or any agency. I just want to have the blessing of telling my son how much I loved him and the story of why I gave him up. I'm so afraid he hates me or feels like I didn't want him. That is so far from the truth. I think about him almost everyday. I had a son After him and my 1st born will always be welcomed in my home. All I wanted to do was make the best out of the situation. I wanted him to have a chance at being successful. I look at kids that are 15 yrs old and wonder how anyone that age could parent a child correctly mostly with no support from family. I wish I could change the way adoptions are today. 99% of the agencies are liars and manipulated children then turn around and practically sell babies. I would like to keep families together and be able to give resources so they can raise their children. I miss my son and I pray all the time he can forgive me and/or give me a chance to put my eyes on him. I want to know he is okay. God please allow me this. So please give your birth mom a chance to explain herself. Benefit of a doubt. We need to all come together and have faith. I am a good person and all I want it to meet my birth son.
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