Adopt

May 28, 2003

Hi,

I hope to one day adopt a child.

I'm currently only 19 years old,

and in this state you must be 21 to adopt.

I plan to start the home study and all that once i'm age 21.

I may be young in age but due to medical stuff I had to grow up more than most people my age.

Alot of people judge me saying that I shouldnt want to adopt being so young and single.

But you know

I want to be a dad more than anything,

and i'm not like most people my age.

I'm not into the partying and all that stuff

and come the end of this summer I will have done all the things in my life i have wanted to.

anyways i'm taking the time untill then

to study the adoption stuff insided and out

For when the time comes i'll be totaly ready for it.

Anyways now that you know my info got a few questions.

For state adoptions what ages are considered a toddler adoption?

I'm hoping to adopt alittle girl between ages 1 and maby 4

Now you may think it's weird i want alittle girl,

But there are reasons.

First of all I always wanted to have daddys little girl,

Plus my mom wants a grand daughter bad.

and boys are more into ruff housing and sports and thats not my stuff.(Of course if thats what the girl got into i would support her)

and things like that.

So once again please dont judege me on that.

Anyways moving on to the next question.

I'm on disablity and was wondering if i adopt

will the amount I get each month rise?

From the studdying i have done on all this

that's a legal form of income for adoption.

and diabled people have right protected for adoption stuff to.

Also

How long once i complte the home studdy do you think it would take to find a white toddler girl?

some people say finding toddler girls is easy because most people want infants. some say it's very hard. I'm not sure what to think. also

I'm not racest but live in a area thats a very white area and thats what would be best so thats why i want a white one..

I would also like to hear some of your experances.

Thanks.

Bye