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Originally Posted By jAMIE
MY BIRTH SON WILL BE 8 MONTHS OLD IN EARLY JULY.tOMMAROW IS A JOYOUS DAY FOR ME & MY MOTHER. A PICKNIC IN THE SAME PARK THAT WE WERE ALL IN TOGETHER BEFORE I DELIVERED.I CAN'T WAIT TO FEED HIM TUTTI FRUITTI & BOUNCE HIM ON MY KNEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!oNE SAD THING ABOUT OUR FIRST VISIT IS WE ARE ACCOMPANIED BY MY ADOPTION COUNCELER SINCE i HAVE CHOSEN SEMI-OPEN WITH PERIODIC VISITS.i GUESS THAT WE HAD TO SCHEDULE AROUND HER SCEDULE SINCE SHE'S OFF ON WEEKENDS WE HAD TO DO THIS ON A WEEKDAY SO THAT SHORTENS MY VISIT BECAUSE ADOPTED DAD HAS TO WORK.THATS O.K. THOUGH. 2 HOURS IS FINE .iT'LL BE SO SO HOT FOR THE LITTLE GUY ANYWAY.i'LL BE EQUIPPED WITH MY HANDY DANDY VIDEO CAMERA & LOTS OF STILL PICTURE TAKING FOR MY LITTLE OF ME.pLEASE PRAY THAT MY FIRST VISIT IS A LOVELY ONE. i AM A NERVOUS WRECK.tHANKS YOU GUYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I hope and pray things go well. Just be yourself. Im sure your son will know who you are! Best of Luck..and keep the faith!!
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Originally Posted By Jamie
It went great!!!!!His A mom even said that she had wished that i could have seen him sooner!!!We have great pictures of all of us together !!!!I got to feed him his tutti frutti while he sat on Adads lap!!!What a joy it was .Allot of my greif has gone.He's my little clone!!!!!!Can't wait for the next visit but i will patiently wait.Still afraid of being to pushy.A grandma & grandpa sent me a nice card & Amom & dad gave me flowers.I gave them Green Eggs & Ham.Just had to have that in their home !!!!!!!
Originally Posted By Holly
I'm so sad to read stupid responses like this. There's always someone out there determined to make something positive become negative. Definitely the type who are looking at their glass as half empty instead of half full.
Jamie - I'm so very happy for you and your experience. It seems that all is going well. Don't let responses and posts like this get to you - people will be people and we just have to rise above crap like this. There are so many uneducated people out there who still view adoption as a temporary condition that ends in tragedy. I'm so very happy to read of your success story. Adoption is what you make of it and it sounds like you and your adoptive parents and their families are making the most of it!! Congratulations. May the Lord bless you with peace, comfort and joy throughout your life.
Love,
Holly
Originally Posted By Jamie
The probation period was completed & he was legaly adopted when I had my first visit.I chose to wait 7& a half months before that first visit until every thing was legal.That way the Aparents would'nt stress about anything like the things that you have mentioned.My birthson went straight to his Ahome directly from the hospital.Their was no foster care in my situation.The thought of taking him back has never crossed my mind.He has a wonderful loving Afamily who loves me very much too.Why should I ever ruin his wonderful childhood & break the hearts of him & his entire Afamily.I placed him because I wanted him to be loved & be safe & stable.I have no regrets about the placement or the family that I have selected.