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Hi Everyone-
I am sorry I haven't posted much lately but we were hit with hurricane Isable and without power for a week and then I just needed to take a break from stuff in general because I was just getting too depressed about my daughter turning four this year and not once have the adoptive parents sent updates or pictures, anything at all knowing that in this particular case the adoption should have been found to have been coercive and fraudulent but for whatever reason they want to live in a vaccum and pretend that I don't exist and I don't understand that at all. How can people sit in court hear what was done and yet do nothing? Whatever happened to people who do the right thing because it's right even though it's hard and it hurts just because it needs to be done? I just don't get it at all maybe because I was raised by parents who expected me to do the right thing no matter what, clouds my judgement in this situation I know they must love my daughter but what happened to the do unto others as you would have them do unto you? I beg every 4 or 5 months for pictures for the last four years with no response nothing, and this year I have no idea if they even bothered to pick up the birthday gift I sent for my daughter. I ask myself every day what will it take to make them and others like them understand that we are people just like they are we bleed, cry, hurt and deserve to be acknowledged and respected as part of our child's life.
Brandy Bottini-Elkins
Lifemother to Amberlie Jeantte aka Amelia Hurt 6-23-99
Stolen July 9, 1999
i feel so bad for your situation. But, also remember the saying that what goes around comes around. you never know how your daughter may feel when they tell her one day. expescially if she finds you and finds out that you always tried to keep in touch...i wish you all the luck~ally
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I am so sorry about your pain. I am an adoptive mom to 2 small children. I just don't get some adoptive families that promise letters, pictures..etc and don't do their part. I think it is VERY selfish on their part and shame on them for doing that to you. I just pray that somehow it will bug the heck out of them, and that they realize what they have done and get in contact with you. I would NEVER do that to my kids birthfamilies. Every night while tucking my kids to bed, I ALWAYS say a prayer for both their birthfamilies.
Hugs and prayers to you...
Cathy