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This all started 18 years ago when I received a phone call from a lady that said she was with "Jamie" (changed name of birthmother) and she had some questions for me. I was a little surprised since I had not seen or spoke to "Jamie" in 7 or 8 months. I thought she was gone to college and that this phone call had something to do with school. I answered several questions before they got more personal about me. I stopped her and asked her exactly what this was about. After a long pause she asked how long it had been since I spoke with "Jamie" I told her 7 or 8 months. She then informed me that she would have "Jamie" contact me. I soon learned that "Jamie was 8 months pregnant and that I was the father. Being only 19 at the time I was in shock and did not know what to do. I eventually agreed to sign all necessary papers. Ever since that day I have second guessed my self, a day does not go by that I pray I made the right decision. Now my daughter turns 18 in 5 weeks and I have no idea how to begin my search. I would greatly appreciate any help I can get. My first concern will always be her feelings and her right to decide if she wants to be in contact with her Bparents.
Thesearchguru has posted helpful search resources for each state. What state did your daughters adoption take place in?
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