talk it out

My husband and I adopted Jordan, our baby boy, 2 years ago. We have a wonderful relationship with his birthmother. She respects as as Jordans parents and we love to include her in our lives. She loves Jordan and the more people that love him the better. Now we are looking to adopt again, we want to do another open adoption. If you are deciding to put your baby up for adoption and want it to be open, make sure you feel comfortable enough with the parents to talk about your feelings with them and be sure they feel the same. This seeems to make a good match. I can ask her anythiny and I think she feels the same. Good luck!!