anyone adopted through CC in Paterson NJ?

I would say for having the name to check the ages with locate america first and go from there. As for writing, I wish I had better advice but I'm not half as close as you are in names.. I only have a last name and 2 possible ones at that since hospital and court are different by 1 letter at the end. I found this article to sound like it would be really helpful and maybe it can help you out some with writing your letter. [url]http://library.adoption.com/Birthmother-Letter/The-Golden-Rules/article/3408/1.html[/url] Hope all goes well for you. Stacey