Looking for Birthfather Thomas M. Famularo

I am looking for the birthfather of my son, who was born on 11/21/83. He was in the US Navy, stationed on the USS Portland in Norfolk, Virginia at the Littlecreek base. He was a MGM 2nd class. He was originally from North New Jersey. His name is Thomas M. Famularo. We were friends first, then I became pregnant. It was a difficult time in my life, and I just want to be able to give some information to his son. I don't know if he's still in the Navy. Any help or advise would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!