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Originally Posted By WendyI chose open adoption so that I could choose the parents. I feel I made a good choice. When I saw the tears in "Amy's" eyes, I knew she would be a wonderful mother to my son. They sent pics for a year or so. I can't tell you what her letters did for me. I really loved hearing how happy they all were. Then with out my knowlege, the BF hired an attorney to get him back. Theey stopped sending pics and moveed away and I have heard nothing since. Not only do I miss thee pics but her letters gave me strength. I continue to send birthday cards and letters to the agency and hopefully someday he will read them. I hate that they think I would ever ttry to take him away from his mommy and daddy. I love him and I grew to care about them as well. I just wish to tell them "Thank you" for raising my son. This loss is tteeerrible because I miss Amy as well.
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Originally Posted By jpcan u ask the agency to send them a letter requesting more pictures and saying that u had nothing to do with the birthfather?u must feel awful since u prob. thought u would always receive word and photos.it is such a small thing to just receive comfort from a photo and letter for your huge loss and now u dont have that.at least your baby is well taken care of and your greif is for the benefit of your child. i will pray for u !
Originally Posted By WendyI have sent letters saying justt that to the agency but unfortunatly, they have no knowledge of their whereabouts so I can only rely on faith that I will have the chance to explain this to them someday. It breaks my heart that they had to go through this terror of fearing that I broke my promise and they had to go through so much pain. I believe in Karma and someday they will know the truth. I have even contemplated finding them just tto tell tthem this. but decided against it knowing it would only cause more fear, which tthey do not deserve. TThank you for your prayers. God Bless.